Pain and Commentary

Lest some people out there, you know who you are, become worried and start imagining I've kicked the bucket I figured I'd better post. :-D

I really should post at least every other day, but as you can see, I don't. I don't have an exciting life. I don't do anything so find myself some days now without a word to say! I'm sure I could find something to write about. For instance, instead of focusing on the day to day I can definitely write more about the everyday things my 2 fur babies do. I think maybe I should start a list. I can for sure blog about things on the news....I just have to remember to put it down before I forget I had something to say on the topic! Love that rsd memory, or rather lack thereof. LOL

I had a pretty good day today but around 8 pm it became a not so good day. *sighs heavily* I knew it was too good to last. Each brush of my shirt on my skin right now from moving my arms or body is sending spears of pain screaming through my body. I am more than thankful I am not sensitive to touch or having things brush across my skin on a regular basis. This happens when I hurt a lot!! Other than that, I sometimes have a low level sensitivity like this normally but always on a higher level can't stand to feel air on my skin. I hate it so much!!!! I have to wear long sleeves most of the time now because of it. When it's about 90 degrees outside it's not pleasant. RSD really, really....really sucks!!!

My commentary tonight will be on the woman in CA, Nadya, who just gave birth to 8 children. When I first saw the story I said to myself....Self....that one is gonna have her hands full!! Then came more of the story. The 6 children she already has under the age of 7 with a set of twins. All of them born by invitro. The fact that she only had 6 embryos implanted and 2 of the eggs ended up splitting into 2 more babies does not make things any better. She shouldn't have had that many implanted to begin with! The doctor that did this should be made to face some consequences for his actions and irresponsibility for doing it. Not only using 6 embryos but also for even performing it in the first place. There needs to be laws, actual laws about how many embryos a doctor can implant. Right now, there's only a "suggestion" on the books of fertility specialists. No doctor should implant more than 2 or 3 eggs.

She now has 14 kids, coming "home" to a small 3 bedroom home where she lives with her freaking parents! Like that's really going to work. LOL Her injury at work back in 1999 which led to her collecting work comp up until last year. The records from her "job" which states she has been an employee until last year and all the years she's been on the books, she hasn't "worked".

So one of my first questions is how did she pay for the invitro? I was a work comp case at one time and I know dang well you don't get very much money on that check. To get the procedure done costs thousands of dollars. Another question is how is she planning on supporting 14 kids? I don't the exact salary of someone in her profession but I do know it isn't enough to buy all the things she needs for them and pay the bills too. She's obviously been too injured to even work for years now.

With more info coming out there's a discrepency in her "story" and the account of others. It's reported she said to a doctor she had 3 miscarriages. Another doc disagreed saying she had 2 ectopic pregnancies. The other thing is her saying she always wanted a lot of children to make up for the isolation she felt as an only child. In the interview she's just done she calls her childhood "dysfunctional". In a report from the state of CA, the docs say she had a happy childhood. She evidently talked about how popular she was and had very loving parents. I'm thinking since it was a report done by the state that it was done while she was on work comp all those years. Why is she trying to say how bad it was for her growing up now? My theory on it.....and it's just a theory....my own personal opinion on the matter....is she's saying this so everyone will quite slamming her for what she's done and feel sorry for her! It's the only reason I can think of. How could you not feel sorry for a poor, lonely only child who didn't have a lot of friends and whose parents weren't loving or attentive? Pfffftttt *snorts* That's the way she's making her childhood sound. IMHO, she seriously needs help of the mental kind. I can only hope that companies and anyone else out there never gives her free anything!! I think when your own mom says you have an obsession with having kids there's clearly a big problem.

Alright, there you have my opinion of this whole mess and the woman behind it. LOLOL I'm hurting a lot but was worth it. :-D