In case you're wondering the other post I did tonight was done in a smaller font size because of how much I wrote. LOL The post would've been longer had I left in this size. Hope you don't mind too much.
Ok.....so now for the announcement. *ahem* *drum roll please*
I'm going to be a Grandma sometime in July next year! *beams proudly* My oldest daughter who is turning 19 in 2 days is pregnant.
I'm happy yes, but at the same time have to groan oh no. She's so young and had hoped she wouldn't follow in my footsteps. I was just 18 when I had my oldest son. Had just turned 20 two months before giving birth to her. Was 21 when I had my 3rd child-2nd son, and 24 when I had my 4th and last baby, Hanyuu. The sob who's the father of my oldest 3 figured he'd keep me pregnant so I couldn't leave him. It was working too! I started plotting my escape when my son was about 2 weeks old. The ass was talking about getting me pregnant again!!!! OMG!! I looked him dead in the eye and said, "If you even so much as come near me, or look at me wrong, I WILL cut that thing off!!!!" ROFL It was the first time I ever stood up to him. He had me well and truly trained and appropriately cowed at that point. Having your butt kicked almost every day will do that.
She'll be moving in with me very shortly now. The sob has stated already that if she ends up pregnant he's booting her butt out the door, period. Knowing him as I do, he'll be saying, my grandchild this and my grandchild that once she has the baby. Well...he's got another thing coming. I look at it like this...you didn't give a damn about the baby when she was pregnant and would have my daughter living on the street, so you're not going to sit there flapping your gums now with the MY grandchild BS!!! The baby will be much, much better off not even knowing him to begin with.
Anyway....her and I already made plans on what to do back in January of this year. We had a pregnancy scare that, obviously, was nothing more than that, a scare. Truthfully, I've been waiting for this day since then. You can only spin the chamber on that gun so many times before it hits on a loaded chamber and not an empty one. I'll take care of my girl and my grandchild before and after. She has a lot of things ahead of her, a lot of changes, but I'm confident she'll be fine and will make a good mom.
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